Sunday, September 23, 2007

Better sex...

It's funny, someone once chided me for my use of ellipsis (...) and for some reason, I remembered after entering my title. hmmm...I need to master the art of selective memory loss. Almost there, but not quite.

"The act of Craving sex is actually better than the act of Sex itself."

Don't be tempted to think the message bearer hasn't experienced good sex before. That is a moot point, seeing as craving sex is relative to the act of the resulting sex. So at best one, can argue that the imagination of said person is significantly rich.

It is my belief, and a pretty common one at that, that women can work wonders with their imagination. For instance, whereas men can be cheaply turned on simply by observing a sexual image, women, also have the capability to do that, but more often rely on their imagination to get them to the point of physical reaction. Perhaps rely is inaccurate, a woman can get a physical reaction from looking at an image also, one that conjures memories for instance; the phrase "assisted by" their imagination seems more accurate. In any case, a woman's combination of anticipation and imagination brings her to a height that levels out during the actual act. During sex, imagination is often non-existent as it often is a choice to make between imagining and experiencing, further more, anticipation is often halted during great sex again because anticipation leads to imagination and imagination takes away from the experience. The lack of these two essential attributes of the female is what has led me to my conclusion. I'm sure a lot of people disagree with me :) In fact, sometimes I do too, but it is such a fun theory to explore. To the nay-sayers, the beauty or perhaps irony of it all is that the slowing down or complete halting of imagination and anticipation only occurs when the sex is atomic....